Our last house had a pool. Had it 34 years. Young kids. I bought new/had it installed. 8" Concrete walled with liner. Good with kids, very nice.
After kids grown and gone it got to be a chore. That said we lived beachy (Padre island and Florida emerald coast) for some years and really liked that…now looking to try to find place near beach that maybe has small pool…but the maintenance and the $$ are relevant to me. Will come Down to the money first (couple hundred a month) and of course if the house has the right stuff.
There's a lot to be said for using a neighborhood pool, which is what we have now. Everybody is different and if you've never had one, you'll probably like it for a long time until it wears on you a little. Be prepared to spend a pretty chunk to get it put in. If I was to put another one in, I might would go with the fiberglass one that is hauled on a truck, because capital maintenance on it I believe would be much less than gunite or a liner.